[📝] Today Was #188: I Don’t Need to Be Close with Everyone

✨ Gemini 2.5 Pro’s Summary 　

A day when I accepted that I do not need to be close with everyone and set a standard for relationships.

• Original: http://blog.naver.com/hyeogikarp/224003579395
• Naver publication time: 2025/09/11 09:43 KST
• Original category: Today’s Proof

Original Text

🗓️ Date: 2025.9.10 Wed

Goals: 0/0

Tasks: 2/2

Habits: 3/3

Bet: 1 item

🔂-🎯 Goal Management Routine System

Lifetime Goal

• [Life RPG]

• 🎯 Reach over 1 million monthly active users (MAU)

2025 Goals

• [Life RPG] (liferpg.online)

• 🎯 Write the first draft of the Life RPG planning document

• 🎯 Design platform-related business and revenue models

• 🎯 Consider B2B conversion

• 🎯 Market research: planning document, apps to include, business and revenue models, … (+ AI)

• 🎯 Validate core hypothesis: collect materials on the effectiveness of gamification

• 🎯 Survey

• 🎯 Organize hypothesis-related materials in Notion Workspace

• 🎯 Temporary roadmap (not final): develop at least 5 built-in apps (modules) for the Life RPG platform

• ✅ 2025.08

  iD Note

• A gamification app that stores academy/PT lesson records and lets users gain experience points and level up through attendance checks and homework

• 🎯 2025.09

  Oharu (Today Was)

• A daily-life gamification app with an internal SNS feature where users set today’s goals and share whether they achieved them with friends

• 🎯 2025.10

  Pianolic

• A music gamification app that manages piano performance records and collects practiced pieces and albums

• 🎯 2025.11

  Running Party

• A running gamification app that tracks running records and provides a running-matching feature so users can run with nearby users

• 🎯 2025.12

  Auto Vibe

• An education gamification app that gathers tips and courses on automation tools and vibe coding, then suggests learning guidelines suited to the user’s goals

• 🎯 2026.01

  Open Life Store

• Officially open Life Store, the core of the platform. Users can purchase app access permissions from the store, and developers can register new apps.

• 🎯 2026.02

  Challenge the Preliminary Startup Package

• To grow the platform and operate it stably, challenge the government-supported Preliminary Startup Package to validate business potential and secure support.

• [Reading]

• ✅ Men Who Let Go of Desperation ㅡ Mark Manson

• 🎯 Fail Fast, Fail Often ㅡ John Krumboltz · Ryan Babineaux

• [Health]

• 🎯 Lose 14.5kg (89.5kg → 75kg)

September Goals

• [Life RPG] (liferpg.online)

• Oharu (Today Was)

• 🎯 Try distributing the APK file by ~9.15

• 🎯 Try registering on the Google Play Store by ~9.30

• [Reading]

• Fail Fast, Fail Often ㅡ John Krumboltz / Ryan Babineaux

• 🎯 373/373p

• [Health]

• 🎯 Lose 5kg (88kg → 83.0kg)

Goals for the Second Week of September

• [Life RPG] (liferpg.online)

• Oharu (Today Was)

• ✅ Write PRD (a daily-life gamification app with an internal SNS feature where users set today’s goals and share whether they achieved them with friends)

• 🎯 Try distributing the APK file by ~9.15

• [Reading]

• Fail Fast, Fail Often ㅡ John Krumboltz / Ryan Babineaux

• 🎯 100/373p

• [Health]

• 🎯 Lose 1.5kg (87.0kg → 85.5kg)

Today’s Goals (⚠️ Required)

• None

🔂-📌 Task Management Routine System

Today’s Tasks (⚠️ Required)

• ✅ Attend Youth Life Design Homecoming Day

• ✅ 5 push-ups

🔂-♾️ Habit Management Routine System

Today’s Habits

• ✅ Strength: At least one strength I discovered in myself today

• I have the understanding to accept people’s diverse thoughts.

• ✅ Gratitude: At least one thing I was grateful for today

• Grateful that, although it was just one person at the Homecoming Day table, there was still someone I could talk with (as expected, E’N’FP)

• ✅ Routine: Today’s goals / tasks / habit check

🔂-💸 Bet Management Routine System

Ongoing Bet (⚠️ Required)

• 🎯 Yo-yo Recovery Challenge (🏆 Reward: recover the 100,000 won put up for the bet)

• By [9.30], 88.0 → 83.0kg

• [9.1] 88.0, [9.2] 87.5

• [9.8] 87.0, [9.9] 86.7, [9.10] 86.5

🤔 Short Reflection

I found an MBTI empathy meme like the one above on SNS.

What I have felt recently while attending various social gatherings is that, as someone with a strong N tendency, I do not seem to fit well with people whose S tendency is too strong.

Of course, aside from MBTI, it is also good to practice understanding the ways of thinking of people who are extremely different from me and somehow talking with them while adjusting to them…

But today was a day when I thought I should now save my energy by focusing more on people who blend well with me.

Right. From the start, trying to become close with everyone is the error.